What's the cost?

The other day I pulled up to the gas pumps to fill up my car and noticed the vehicle at the pump ahead of me was decorated with some Vietnam Veteran stickers. I then noticed the gentleman that was filling up the truck, wearing Army fatigue pants and a US Veteran hat.

I thought to myself, "Wow, I am so thankful for him. Maybe I should go say thank you".  I paused and thought, no that would be awkward, I have never seen this man before and probably never will again.

So I went ahead and started filling up my gas tank, then I decided that I needed to say "Thank you" to him. Not because I was alive during the war, because I wasn't, but maybe I am alive today because he went overseas and fought for me.

I walked over to him and my eyes started welling up as I said "Sir, I noticed your stickers and hat and just wanted to thank you" as I held out my hand for a handshake.

He immediately snapped to attention and grabbed my hand with a grin spreading across his face. He started talking with me, telling me he was overseas for 6 years and he pointed to his license plate which had a disabled veteran designation.

I could barely choke out my words of gratitude, my words seeming so simple and lacking for what he gave to our country.

Our tanks were finished filling and we went back to our vehicles after our brief chat. It warmed my heart to see him drive away with a little wave and big smile on his face.

After our encounter, my spirits were lifted and I kind of shook my head at myself for being hesitant to acknowledge a stranger. Something so simple as a "Thank you" and a brief chat made me realize how lucky I am. I've never been to war, none of my closest family members have had to give their lives for my freedom and my friends have never been drafted.

There was no cost involved in me saying thank you, no hardship on my part, just a moment of time chatting with a stranger. Something that cost nothing, sure changed my day, and hopefully brightened that Veteran's day. Maybe next time I won't be so hesitant to appreciate those around me, and let them know it.